Tarot Cards Meaning for Love (reading for every card)

Question: I love him more than he loves me. Marriage?

The Fool is a carefree adventurer, who walks into the world with wonder and positivity. He knows the dark sides too, but he has learned that life is what you make it, and so he decides to make it bright. Yellow is the colour of happiness and spontaneity, and the Fool’s world is very yellow. With a love score of 1, this card is not an omen of attainment in love, however, it is a message to focus on the good things, and who knows, you might even find that his affection is stronger than you think.

Let this card take your hand, you’ll only grip it back stronger. You are capable and powerful, don’t let yourself linger. The potential you have inside of you is ready to burst, so let it shine and let it be, you’ll reap the rewards first. Transforming is scary and it may be time for change, but if you set yourself free you probably won’t feel as strange. Everything you need is right before you, be sure to reach out and take it, The Magician is cheering for you to.

This card scores +3. It shows a relationship that’s playful, determined and carefree.

If The Magician is turned then beware of your tongue. You might say something cruel or perhaps something wrong. Or maybe it is not you at all, but someone close by you hoping that you’ll fall. But if you remain sensible you can still see the light of day. Take time to connect with your higher self and you’ll soon be on your way. You may need to look at turning back, though it can be hard to see. But it’s okay, everyone makes mistakes, just like you and me.

The key is an opener of locks. Your heart has been locked for too long, and it is time to unlock it and offer it up to those who want or need it. This could be a romantic partner, a friend, or someone in your family. Now is the time to open up to the person you have had locked out and allow them back into your heart.

Unlocking your heart will help to provide you freedom. You are the one who holds the key. You have to permit yourself to open the lock to have your space.

Your problems of the heart can be solved when you allow yourself to unlock it and grant yourself the freedom to feel love.

This card can represent love as a +2 because there is an opportunity for a great romance, but it can also lead to disappointment if you are not being open an truthful to yourself and your partner.

You are the keeper of your keys. You are in charge of making sure you have everything you need to feel happiness. Sitting idly will not suffice, you need to take action and be in control.

Once you have granted yourself the freedom to unlock yourself, you will be that much closer to your goals. Do not allow someone else to control your keys. Your destiny rests with you and you alone.

Question: Why doesn’t he want to date me? Any insights?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is 0 (not good or bad).

The Empress indicates to me that you are a very nurturing and kind-hearted person. You can be very passionate and loving, but with that being said this person might not be ready for a relationship. This could be because this person cannot express their feelings very well or they need to work on themselves a little more. This has nothing to do with you and you shouldn’t force it. A relationship will flow to you when it is the right time. He might not be the right one for you and that is why he is against the idea. He knows you deserve better.

Question: Does he like me if we don’t talk? Please can you explain in tarot terms?

The Emperor is an authority and father figure and is usually well respected by all, but this is not the recipe for a good partner and a balanced relationship. Consider how you approach him, are you an admirer, or are you his peer? If you want him to respect you, you must act as if you know that you are on his level. With a love score of -3, this card is not usually an indication of romantic love, but rather of paternal protectiveness. If you want to change this, you must lose your insecurity and step up to be equal with him.

Question: The Hierophant outcome love. What?

Answer: You are a warm person with a strong mind and even stronger beliefs. It comes as no surprise that you expect the same from a love relationship, and when that cannot be brought to the table, it is enough to rip apart relationships as you drift apart.

Your spiritual beliefs are priority for you, and if the person you love does not match with you, you simply detach. If you do connect – it will be for life. Never change for anybody, no matter how tempting their smile is. Stick to what matters to you, and the right people will appear, and stay.

In my opinion, The Hierophant card’s score for love and relationships is 2.

Your relationship choices are of the utmost importance right now. Assess your current situation and decide if it is where you want to be. You will have to do some deep thinking and proceed with caution since relationship choices will affect the rest of your life.

When selecting appropriate relationships, look to these four things: heart, mind, body, money.

Heart – choose those who are kind and patient. Choose someone strong who also makes you feel strong. Do not sacrifice your dreams, nor ask someone to sacrifice theirs. Find the one who offers support and help when needed.

Mind: Find someone with an open mind. This is not the same as finding an intellectual equal. Enjoy time with those who enjoy debate and conversation. Book smart and life experience are two different things. Look for relationships where you can communicate.

Body: Physical attraction may come and go, but it is an important consideration. Having an appeal to someone promotes the health of a relationship.

Money: It does not matter how much money each person in the relationship has as long as financial obligations are discussed. An agreement can be made to suit both parties. Choose relationships where you are comfortable discussing responsibilities.

It is time to decide if you are in the right relationship or if you seek something else.

This card in regards to love has a score of 0 because it is neither good nor bad. It simply indicates that if you are in a relationship where you feel like both of you are successful and happy this will bring you both together and if you are feeling trapped in a relationship it is a sign to take your leave and find someone who will appreciate you for you.

Question: Does he want me to make a move? I don’t need stupid bla bla. Just tell me as it is.

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is -1 (not good).

The Chariot indicates that you might be a little too bold with the situation at hand. I would say wait it out just a little longer because at this point he might feel a little smothered by you. Just take a breather and when it feels right then go for it. Not everything in life needs to be rushed.

You no longer need to defeat the monster in front of you, you have the strength of a lion inside. This difficult journey is coming to an end and your confidence, you no longer need to hide. There is power inside of you, that I beg you to believe. Strength is a card of positivity and you don’t need to worry and leave. Self-esteem can be heightened and confident you will be. Believe in the message of this card and it can help you like it helped me.

This card scores a +3 in love, as it gives way to new things coming from above. Things can get rocky, but don’t let it make you cocky. Just build upon the already growing relationship and greater things will start flowing. Be strong and bold, just don’t get cold on those close to you.

If it’s not upright no need to be uptight you’re just having a difficult time. You may be experiencing self-doubt or a lack of control, but you can gain back your mind. The courage is there, it just needs to be found. I promise you can do it you won’t fall flat on the ground.

Question: The Hermit as ex. Signs?

The Hermit is introspective and has withdrawn into himself to reflect on his own inner mechanisms. His thoughts and considerations are only known to him, and his spiritual journey is secret. The Hermit is not a good fit for a partner, as he has other priorities than love. Until he has reached his own enlightenment, he will be unavailable and have very little to offer. I give this card a love score of -4. Whatever it is that you hope to find, find it with someone else.

Spin the wheel, it is in your path. Now is the time of opportunity for happiness and laughs. Play the game now and you have a higher chance to win. So, come and step forward to the Wheel of Fortune and take a spin. There is change that is coming so take chances but don’t be reckless. You’re on your way to your destiny so don’t become headless.

This card scores a +5. The wheel is turning and within love you’ll start learning. This love can come in and be sudden and thrilling but also fulfilling. Step into new opportunities and you’ll find communities for growth.

You can’t spin the wheel if it’s upside down. You might lose your mind and turn your smile into a frown. Be careful as what you’re being offered, there is misfortune in your path. Keep your head high and don’t be tempted or you may experience the world’s wrath. It might feel as though you’re cursed with bad luck, but simply stay sensible and keep on walking, you will get through the muck.

Question: Does she have a crush on me?

Answer: Crushes can be possible, but that doesn’t really give anybody the right kind of permission to act upon it, especially if something is stopping you from doing so, such as a consequence or uncertainty.

Are you doing the right thing by pursuing this? You should be prepared for the consequences of chasing something that may not have the desired outcome for you, and yes, that also involves people, in this case a certain person who is and should be left alone for the sake of your reputation.

In my opinion, Justice card’s score for love and relationships is 1.

Let Go.

You have been hurt in the past. It is time to let go before it destroys your mental health and clarity. It is easy to live in the past, but it is painful. Find a way to let go of the hurt so that you can move on.

You need to find the strength to decide to let go of the past. The hurt feelings will not just disappear, you need to be able to work through them. Accept that letting go is a choice you have to make. You will empower yourself when you admit that it is your choice.

Express your emotions to others or yourself so that you can move past the pain. Once you have done that, you will be able to focus on the present. Forgiveness is not a weakness. It is a way to move forward.

Rather than replaying past mistakes and clinging to the past, you need to move on. Give up the past to embrace the present and the future. Focus on what you desire and allow positive energy into your life.

The ability to let go means that you can move forward with purpose and intention. Move past the hurt and learn from it. But don’t dwell on it.

This card scores -3 in love. It could be a clear indication that someone is unhappy in the relationship. Leave if things don’t feel right, don’t stay for the sake of others because you’ll only end up hurting yourself.

Question: How to tell if he misses you after a breakup? I need a sign.

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is -3 (bad).

The Death card indicates that he has moved on and it is time for you to do so as well. You have new things awaiting you and the past is holding you back. He is working on his own life now and starting new projects. You shouldn’t dwell on what you had and if he still thinks about you. Start looking forward to and planning your next move. People are out of your life for a reason. It’s time for a change considering your mindset and all things surrounding it.

Question: Does he mean what he says drunk? He said he wanted to have children with me and live in our own house. Now he is silent about it. Did he mean it or not?

Answer: What he says does not need to be actioned straight away, as far as he is concerned. Yes, he most certainly should think before he acts because you have taken his comments and made all the plans in your mind to marry and settle.

With him, he says what he wants, then works slowly towards it, hoping you would offer a little consideration for his thought and purposely steady movement. He wants it to work, and if you go too quickly, that is when mistakes are likely to happen.

In my opinion, Temperance card’s score for love and relationships is 2.

You are struggling between good and evil right now. The way you choose to react to the situation at hand will show others who you truly are. Are you a good person who can make good choices? Or are you lacking empathy and choosing evil?

Struggling with the choice reveals that you want to be virtuous. It is within your power to make good choices. Do not act impulsively. You need to take time to assess the situation and make a plan of action to be happy with your path.

The immediate gratification of the wrong choice may be tempting. Stay strong and resist the urge to make the easy choice. It may require more work and effort to be good, but the outcome will be far more gratifying in the end.

Take time to become self-aware and understand the consequences of your actions in a situation. If you make the wrong choice, you may have to live with regret. Avoid feeling remorseful and hurting someone else. Analyze your options and choose what is truly good.

This card scores a -5 in love. It shows someone feeling trapped or being manipulated to stay. This is a definite sign that you should be trusting your gut and leaving people behind that aren’t good for you.

Question: I would like The Tower card’s guidance for a relationship.

Answer: Disaster is ahead, and whether or not you care to admit it, there is no love likely to develop between you. Sudden changes will occur that will bring you back to reality with a thump, and leave you less than amused at the very least.

Stress comes from being treated unfairly by others, and in this instance, you most definitely detect a fear of commitment. This is most probably going to be you due to a past trauma. Is it really the right time to be questioning love? Take a break from it and wait for the storm to pass.

In my opinion, The Tower card’s score for love and relationships is -3.

Question: How do I know if he still has feelings for his ex? Any hints?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is -1 (not good).

The Star indicates that there are a lot of feelings involved with the past and present. At all times trust your gut. He might be open and honest with you by showing you how he appreciates you but if you are feeling like something is off then tell him. Communicate this problem with him and explain your feelings.

Question: Signs she wants you to make a move. Can you give a sign?

Associated with mystique and werewolves, the moon is an ancient symbol of transition, unpredictability, and complexity, and indicates to someone who draws the Moon Card, that something is about to change. In ancient Greek mythology, the personification of the moon is called Selene, the goddess who drives her Chariot across the sky at night. The Homeric Hymn to Selene describes the nature of the moon cycles and ends with the words “So she is a sure token and a sign to mortal men“ Selene gave her heart to a mortal named Endymion driven by mad passion. Assigning this card a love score of 4, I believe it is time to make a move.

The Sun is glowing high up in the sky. This is a great time to spread your wings and fly. Joy is ahead, I have no doubt in my mind. You should enjoy your successes and continue to be kind. The yellow from the sun is shining brightly and there’s a time coming for you that will be enlightening. With your new happiness, continue to go forth. Both you and those around you will recognise your worth.

This card scores +2 in love. You are a superstar and you shine so bright that it makes people instantly see your light. Your relationship can be described as positive and bright that can give you both the sense that this relationship is right.

The sun’s smile has been turned into a frown. You’ve lost some happiness and sadness seems to keep coming around. There are some things that likely aren’t clear. But that’s okay, you can still move forward, you shouldn’t stay here. You can get out of this slump and move along your path. Walking forward moves you away from sadness, so you do the math.

Question: Do you love me how to respond? What do I feel?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is +3 (good).

The Judgement card shows that the relations could be beneficial for both parties. Not only will it help you understand what you want and need in a relationship it could also teach you what you don’t want in a relationship. If you feel like things are going well then absolutely go for it, but if things feel forced then rather step back from the situation and look at the bigger picture. Listen to your gut. This will ultimately tell you what you feel and you should listen to it.

Question: What does the World mean in a love reading?

Answer: Completion is upon you. The hard work you have dedicated to making this a relationship like no other has come to fruition. You have accomplished what many fail to produce, and that is a trusting bond that the strongest of storms cannot break.

You have overcome hardship together, and let go of all the pain that simply does not serve you any longer. This is an incredible feeling and one that you will want to hold on to for as long as possible. Don’t let any fears of commitment cause a stumble along the way.

In my opinion, The World card’s score for love and relationships is 3.

Did someone say, love? It is time to take the next step in your relationship. Make your love life your top priority right now.

Make time to spend with your love interest despite your busy schedule. Create a special time for bonding and sharing of mutual love. Share your mutual interests and do things you both enjoy to build on the connectivity that is forming.

This is the time to nurture the relationship and show your partner how much you care. Do something unique, and in turn, you will be surprised with special treatment too. The more you put into your relationship, the more you will receive.

If you are having difficulty accepting love, let go of the past. This love is new, and there are no strings attached. Welcome it and reciprocate it.

The blossoming romance will uplift you and remind you how to love yourself and someone else.

Consider what the next step will be. Is it time to move in together? Get engaged? Get married? Do not fear the next step, embrace it. Move forward with the one who makes your heart flutter and your knees wobble.

This card scores a +5 in love. This is highly regarded as a soulmate connection and a relationship that will be fruitful for many years to come. You and your partner are definitely in it together and are capable of working through anything together.

Question: She keeps coming back into my life. Signs, please.

Symbolising reunion and celebration, the Three of cups could be an indication that you both flourish when you see each other, and therefore destiny has braided your paths together.

With a love score of 4, I trust that something good will happen between you, if you let it.

Question: Will she come back if she loves me? Any hints?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is -3 (bad).

The four of cups indicate that a person was dissatisfied in a relationship or maybe took too many things for granted. She won’t come back as she knows that the partnership you had wasn’t very good for her as a person. She might contact you, but don’t jump to any conclusions that this is a sign that she’s coming back.

Question: Wha’s Five of cups signifficance as betrayal?

In love, the Five of cups reveals abandonment and grief. If you have been betrayed in your past, this card is an indicator that you are still mourning and finding it hard to let go. With a love score of -4, this card might seem like a very pessimistic prophecy, especially to someone suffering in the aftermath of treachery, but it is not. Although we tend to project our pasts failures onto our future, things do change for the better. This card beckons you to put your past behind you and open yourself to your future so that you can receive the love and happiness it will bring.

Question: He won’t leave his wife? I am sick and tired of his promises. Give me a sign.

The Six of cups represents family, memories, and deep connection indicating that your lover might be too bound to his family and his past with her/them to be able go through with it and leave. But empty promises are betrayal in itself, meaning that he is betraying both of you at the same time, because of his own indecisiveness. This is not a good quality in a partner, if he does not keep his word, leave him as soon as possible. With a love score of 2, this card is not a bad omen in love, yet with this man, your devotion is unreciprocated.

Question: How to know he loves you? Mirror mirror, answer, please.

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is -3 (bad).

Seven of cups show someone who isn’t really stable. He has a lot of commitments and cannot focus on one thing. Don’t get up in a fantasy world of a relationship. He might care for you but you are putting him on a pedestal. He is doing the bare minimum and you are taking it as him giving his all. If he really loves you, you would know.

It may be time to walk away from people or things that are no longer serving you. Despite the effort you have put in, things are not going as planned, and it may be time to put some things behind you rather than keep hoping for something that may not happen. When you no longer benefit from a situation, it is time to move on. It may bring sadness, but it will be for the best in the end as new opportunities present themselves.

You will need to deal with the emotions that you are having so that you can move on. Avoidance will not serve you now.

It is time to consider things that would bring you joy and work toward new goals that will serve you better. Consider what will make you feel fulfilled and create a new plan to get there.

In regards to love this card is a -4 it is time to let go of this person. The situation won’t get any better because so much has already suffered under it.

You will have to realign your goals with your values so that you can manifest your true desires. Make a vision board to have a reminder of your dreams that will motivate you to let go of the things that don’t work and adopt habits that do!

Question: What’s the Nine of cups card meaning for love?

A very positive card to open in your love reading, the Nine of cups suggests that your love-life will prosper, and your wishes will come true. Assigning this card a score of 4 in love, I trust that you will have great success in your future romantic endeavours.

Happiness, joy, and contentment are yours. You are at a good place in your relationships with family and other loved ones. The love and happiness you have created are meant to be shared with others.

The connections and bonds you have created with others are what is important right now. Keep working to maintain those connections. Feeling the love and support of others will help you to reach your potential and be the best version of yourself.

This card scores +5 in terms of love and is the ultimate romance card. You both are overflowing in abundance and in sync with each other this relationship is overflowing with abundance!

You also see your loved ones experience success and happiness, which brings you even more joy. There is no fighting and no tension, allowing you to enjoy your relationships to the fullest.

Now is an excellent time for family gatherings and getting together with other loved ones. You will be able to create memories to last a lifetime while everyone seems to be in harmony. Bonds will become even stronger.

A romantic relationship may also take flight. This could be a new relationship or the growth of what you already have. This will contribute to your sense of completion and happiness. You feel like all of your dreams are coming true so remember to take time to step back and soak it all in. Appreciate what you have gained.

Question: Will he ever want to commit?

The Page of cups represents childhood and playfulness. On it is depicted an individual holding a cup or chalice with a fish in it. The fish is a widespread symbol of creativity and purification. By my appraisals, this card scores 4 in love but denotes a more immature tenderness and perhaps nativity. Although your man might not be ready to commit, it does not mean that he does not love you wholeheartedly. But it is up to you to decide whether you can tolerate his youthful mindset. If you do, you must channel your own inner child to play along sincerely.

Question: What does Knight of cups card mean in a love reading?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is +4 (very good).

Knight of cups shows that it’s time to step up and bring some romance into your life. It shows you that it is time to be brave and go for something you wouldn’t have tried due to fear. It is a time to open new doors and bring love into your life.

Question: Does your crush like you in middle school?

The Queen of cups loves unconditionally. She is kind and generous and her maturity makes everyone feel safe and comfortable in her presence. But often prioritising others before herself, her kindness comes at a cost to her own time and energy, and silently she has a deep desire to also feel appreciated. With a love score of 4, I believe that this card is a sign that you have good influence and are well-liked, and I believe that this also is the case for your crush. But this is not always enough, and it would be a good lesson for you, to expect a little in return. Let him/her come to you.

Question: Should I ever call him?

The King of cups is a very dignified card and conveys both authority and compassion. The king on his throne has taken his position to rule his dominion and create order in the chaos. In love, this card scores -1, an indication that maybe it isn’t worth waiting around. I think it is important to look to the rudimentary meaning of this card, and let it inspire you to take emotional control and create order in the chaos which you are so taunted by when waiting around for a phone call.

Question: Why does he like me even though I’m fat? Can it be love?

Even if it is hard to believe, love is in the air. With a love score of 5, the Ace of cups is an excellent omen of success in a relationship, and for someone who is single, usually suggests that a partner is at the doorstep.

Depicted on the Ace of cups is a hand offering a chalice overflowing with water. The white dove above it is a common symbol of freedom, love, and purity, and points to the content in the chalice as to say, these are the qualities of this water, if you drink it, this is what you will have. Do not let your insecurities stand in the way of love, accept it, it will help you love yourself better.

Question: Two of pentacles communication – yes or no? (the relationship is very complicated)

Answer: The door to communicate effectively is open, but there lacks a certain element of quality in what is returned to you. There are too many decisions being juggled, and no time for love in the foray, which leads to a level of disappointment amongst fragments of hope.

In order to live alongside a love like this, you must accept that you don’t have a say in who speaks and when. If it is possible, the patience you need to learn will leave you feeling less exhausted than constantly chasing someone who changes their mind.

In my opinion, Two of pentacles card’s score for love and relationships is 0.

Question: Three of pentacles tarot card upright love. OK?

Depicted on the Three of pentacles a tradesman, a priest, and an architect are discussing the work which is to be done to the cathedral. This collaboration between three people of different skills is a metaphor for the synergy of multiple entities working together to bring something into existence, how we have evolved as a civilization. This is also the nature of relationships, it takes two people working together, applying their skills, improving their weaknesses, and giving and taking, in order to create a harmonious partnership. With a love score of 3, I believe this card is more than OK, it is an incentive to practice your aptitude for collaboration, to prepare for a thriving relationship.

Question: What does “I love the person you are” mean? Positive or negative for this relationship?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is +3 (good).

Four of pentacles is positive. It means that this person truly believes in you and loves you for who you are. They might be a little possessive because they care so much which is why clear boundaries need to be set but this person likes you in the truest form they can. They show it with phrases like “I love the person you are” because they fear being rejected for their feelings.

Question: Five of pentacles love advice – is there anything for me?

Answer: Sudden losses have led you to believe that you are meant for the pile of desolate souls, and no more. You walk as though you are still hurt from times long ago, but in truth you are able to heal and the light is on for you to do so.

If you think about it logically, you have every hope within you of a happy ending. The worry of being let down again is stuck in the forefront of your mind, and it needn’t be. You can escape this and stop ignoring your feelings. Face them with pride and confidence.

In my opinion, Five of pentacles card’s score for love and relationships is -3.

As with this suit, this card speaks of money and says you are in good standing. Your incomes and expenses are well-balanced and it’s something that you seem to be handling. Now is the time to think of charity and how you can maybe share your wealth. You don’t need to be greedy or frugal right now so don’t keep all of your money on a shelf.

This card scores +4 in love. Be being giving and wishing everyone the best you can create the life of your dreams with your partner. There is balance in individuality and synchronicity. Health will surely come your way if you have been helping others through giving ways.

In reverse your good nature might not be the best. You may have lent money or made someone an investment that’s simply making you stressed. Don’t let someone take advantage of you just because you are stable. It’s okay to say no if you don’t trust them, you can’t invest if you’re not able. At the same time, you may be giving out dimes just to make yourself feel good. You shouldn’t do this if it is, so you don’t have to be kind, it won’t get you out of the woods.

You have been putting effort into your life and it surely shows. Your finances are glowing and it’s the end of a struggle that has been giving you woe. If you want to invest then this card says that that option may be your best. However, it won’t be easy as it requires hard work, effort and nothing less. Even if it seems your trees have not yet bore fruit. Keep on going it will happen eventually they’ve just taken time to grow strong roots.

This card scores a +3 in love. It is time to reap what you’ve sown. Look at the fruits of labour, hard work in love, there is dignity in striving for a good and warm home. Be ready for your relationship to grow, it might seem unsteady but things will definitely come to full blown proportions soon.

In reverse you’ve got the fruits of your labour, though they are much smaller than you thought. However, this can be good as it may make you evaluate the time you wrought. You now know whether this investment is at all worth your time. You can maybe see another patch of land where you can instead plant your limes. Be aware, this isn’t just related to your bank. This is also relevant in any relationships where you never received your thanks.

Question: Sorry for a stupid question. What does eight of pentacles mean as feelings for a teen? I’m heartbroken.

Answer: This is the prime age where learning really comes into your life, and that includes all areas that you are dealing with .These rushes of hormones are designed to take you by surprise and offer you little in terms of reassurance, but remember – they are dealing with the same thing.

Love and relationships are difficult to manoeuvre in these years due to the influx of feelings and changes occurring. There is nothing to worry about, as these are the years you explore your curiosity with as little judgement as possible.

In my opinion, Eight of pentacles card’s score for love and relationships is -1.

Question: What does “I want to make love to you” mean? Is he serious?

Answer: Confidence exudes him – and with one spoken desire he wants to be yours. Not only that, he wants to physically display his love for you in ways you can’t imagine. Be aware that there is trauma surrounding this display of affection, and it is likely his.

Whether he is trying to get over someone, or he wants to be an independent lover, this does not stop him from how he feels, and how much he likes what he sees when he sees you. Make the most of it, because if you are happy, then you can satisfy each other.

In my opinion, Nine of pentacles card’s score for love and relationships is 2.

Question: Ten of pentacles as my boyfriend’s intentions?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is +5 (excellent).

The ten of pentacles shows a long-lasting relationship between you and your partner. He might be thinking of building a foundation with you to be able to settle down for a long time and grow together. This card in some cases indicates a marriage which is healthy and fruitful.

Question: Do you think about me now and then cause I’m coming home again? Reconciliation? Should I believe him?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is +2 (moderately positive).

The Page of pentacles calls for a time of reconciliation. It indicates a couple that has gone through a difficult time and needs to reconnect to fix their situation. He might be thinking of how wrongly he has treated you and knows how unfair he has been. Take this opportunity to talk to him about the situation but don’t do anything hasty unless you feel like this can be a stable relationship.

The Knight represents those repetitive tasks that you have to do daily. It may not be as exciting as the major project but tackle it with strength, not frailly. There is good loyalty within you to the project you are currently on. Make sure to keep working effectively and efficiently before you declare your project done. Routine may seem dull but it’s the best thing to do. It may seem mundane, but it can harness your skills to make you the best version of you.

This card scores a -1 in love. Stay away from relationships for now, just be patient and allow yourself some me-time. Achieve your goals before setting into comfy house rolls.

In reverse the knight is stuck in the same routine every day. You’ve gone to far and you can’t escape or turn the other way. These tiny things have made you neglect the bigger things happening in your life. This hasn’t helped and it’s made you more stuck as you continue your strife. It might be time to take a risk and make that leap. It’s a way out of your routine so you won’t be stuck like a sheep.

Question: I do love you, but… He has some reservations that I don’t understand. Can you open a card for me, please?

The Queen of pentacles sits on her throne holding a pentacle depicting a 5-pointed star, an ancient symbol of humans’ two sides, with their feet on the ground and their heads reaching to the divine. The Queen is well-balanced, mature, and responsible, and has high expectations of her potential partners. Just like she does with the pentacle, she too looks at her partners closely, weighing them, evaluating them, and assessing whether they are fit to be her lover. This thorough scrutinization of everything can also mean that she often feels that something is not adequate. With a love score of 0, I would advise you to loosen your grip and try to accept the fact that you will never know or understand everything about him.

You excel at attracting and managing wealth. Perhaps there is a new business venture coming your way. Pay attention to opportunities that arise and jump at those that may seem profitable.

Invest your wealth wisely so that it will be available for your future. Use your discipline and self-control when it comes to spending. Take the time to consider what is needed versus what is wanted. Remember, long term gain is what you seek rather than immediate gratification.

You can take your ideas and bring them to fruition. You are willing to work hard for what you want to ensure that you meet your goals. Applying yourself sets you up for future success and wealth.

You do not need to prove yourself to others. You know that what is yours was gained through hard work and determination. You can enjoy your success, knowing that it was earned.

Your experimentation with what works best has led you to use methods that have worked. Keep using those methods rather than being distracted by new ways, which may or may not work. Now is not a good time to take risks. Carry on as you have been and watch your abundance grow.

In regards to relationships this card scores +4 it indicates a person who will take care of you and sees the effort you put into every aspect of your life. Be open to them helping you if they want to, it can be hard if you’re and independent person, but this is how they show they care.

This suit is one of new beginnings and the ace indicates some gain. It may not be financial, but it is likely material or maybe even sensual to relieve some pain. Stability and security will come your way, but they do need to be nurtured. If you invest in this then you will surely help it to mature. You need to be ready for some opportunities that are to come. If you aren’t ready and don’t accept them into your life then soon they will be gone.

This card scores a +2 in love. You’re invited to start a new relationship which will lead to lots of excitement. You never know what could be waiting around the corner. Give it a chance it might give you a fun change of plans.

In reverse there are still opportunities, but you may need to be cautious. It may be a bad investment so even if you’ve reached stability don’t get cocky and obnoxious. To any choices that may be placed in front of you I will say to take some time and think it through. There may be some fine print that you have missed which could come back to get you if you don’t see the truth.

There are two paths, and you must choose which one to follow. Do you take the easy route, or do you take the road less traveled? When you are faced with hard decisions, the choice may be a difficult one.

Take time to weigh the pros and cons of your decision. Do not act quickly. Meditate on your choices and allow yourself time to contemplate the consequences of the decision. One is not necessarily better than the other, but it will be different.

Visualize the outcome you want and consider the best way to get there.

Once you have made your choice, be confident in it. Trust in your decision means to trust in yourself. To trust in yourself, you must authentically be yourself.

Keep your promises to yourself, committing to your decision means that you are confident you made the right choice. Get rid of any doubt and move forward.

Trusting yourself helps you to be in touch with your feeling and your emotions, which will, in turn, allow you to achieve your goals. So, consider your options carefully, decide what to do, and do it!

This card scores a 0 in love. It isn’t good or bad. It just means that their might be a tough decision that should be made and currently you are weighing your options to see where your desired outcome might be. Especially if you are in a relationship. This might be a difficult decision to be made.

You have many opportunities available to you. You need to seize them.

To take advantage of the opportunities, you will need to be in tune with yourself. Know your desires and goals and meditate on them so that you will be ready to take them when the opportunities arise.

Developing a deeper connection with yourself will help you to see the opportunities available. Remember that opportunities do not last forever, so you need to be able to make a decision when one does present itself.

Say “yes to the opportunities that will help you to achieve your goals, and remember that it is also okay to pass on some options if they do not serve you and your purpose. Not every opportunity will be the right one – meditating on your goals will help you see which opportunities are meant for you.

An opportunity may seem like a risk. Take it. Without risk, there is no gain.

Keep a positive attitude and focus on your goal. Maintaining focus will help you take advantage of the opportunities and move you forward in your career, social life, and relationships…

This card scores a +2 in love. It shows someone who needs to keep focus on their love life or relationships because they are going to have a fruitful outcome as long as they stay focussed.

Now is the time to make the most of every opportunity!

There is harmony that seeps through your home. And the foundations of friendships are stable, so you won’t be alone. Happiness is near or perhaps already here. If it is then you should enjoy the laughs, now is the time you can take a break and relax. Catch up with your friends, both old and new. Maybe you should arrange a small gathering where you can share a laugh or two.

This card scores a +5 in love. Marriage and proposals are well on the way, for this love is definitely here to stay. Fruit are to be plucked from a well nurtured love when all you have done is received blessings for this love.

If upside down the strings have broken and the harmony isn’t right. There could be something going on with the people you love like a secret argument or fight. Is there someone in your life not giving you the support you need? It’s likely that tensions have built up, communications have broken down and they are in need of a good deed. These things can be fixed but you should be aware that if you need someone to turn to the person you expect may not be there.

Question: Does he really like me or is he just using me for sex? True answer?

Answer: There is no empathy in his heart, and as much as you might want him to love you, the simple answer is that he does not. He wants you in the most selfish way. With his shallow ways comes the drama of him making you an option rather than a sure choice.

One way of affirming his less than desirable opinion of relationships is his obsession with disagreeing with you, almost gaslighting you. There is nothing here for you that exudes any kind of healthy and stable union, so the best thing to do is let him go.

In my opinion, Five of wands card’s score for love and relationships is -2.

This card shows you’re victorious and people recognise your strength. You’ve achieved your goals and you’re allowed to celebrate completing all of your lengths. Before there was confusion but now that has faded into success. With your clear mind your goals have been achieved up to and in excess. However, confidence is good but don’t let it fog your mind. You may become egotistical and people might no longer see you as kind.

I love this card has a +2 score. A brilliant person might come your way, they are insightful, passionate and will always stay. This person has an eye on you, be bold and try to make the first move.

In reverse you may be struggling to find your completed goal. But this lack of confidence will only hold you back and it is not good for your soul. If you feel overlooked, then maybe it’s time to give yourself a boost. You can call on your pride and keep your head high, don’t go back and hide in your roost. Find the people who support you when you’re in need. If you say how you’re feeling then surely they’ll understand and help you as a good deed.

You have earned what you have, and you deserve to have it. Do not let others come and try to take what you have worked so hard for without putting in their effort.

Some may be jealous but remember what it took for you to get where you are. Celebrate your hard work and efforts, and do not let jealousy take away from your happiness.

There may be jealous people, but you are a leader, and you deserve your place and your possessions. Jealous people have no place in your life. Remember what it took you to get what you have and remain proud of your accomplishments.

Being proud does not mean that you are stuck up or feel superior, so do not let others rain on your parade. Celebrating your accomplishments will motivate you to continue and reach the next goal or milestone. If you do not celebrate your achievements, you will never feel fulfilled.

Acknowledge what you have done, how you feel about it, and determine what you want to do next.

In love this card scores a 0 as it isn’t good or bad. It indicates that boundaries need to be set in your relationship and that your situation needs to be handled with good communication.

There have been difficult times and rejoice, for they are over. Bad luck has gone and good luck will come like you’ve just found a four leaf clover. There is some news on the horizon that is making its way to you. But please don’t be afraid for it will be a positive day when this news finally comes to. There is more to achieve but that doesn’t mean you should leave, sometimes it’s best to just wait. Taking your time and having patience means it won’t arrive too early or too late.

This card scores a +1 in love. Trying new things can seem pretty tough but at the end of the day they help us when things feel rough. They help us bring new light to love and make sure that things that are bad have been gotten rid of. Engage in new activities and see how your relationship flows like a breeze.

In reverse this card says you’ve been waiting to long and you’re surely getting frustrated. Patience is hard and it may make you jealous of others, but don’t get irritated. The past is set and it cannot be changed so don’t waste time trying to go back. sometimes it can really help your health if you just cut yourself some slack. Think about this frustration and why it has decided to show. If there is a conflict, then you should address it so that tension can finally go.

If you have been facing problems, then the nine of wands is your friend. It signals that there is hope that your problems will come to an end. This card represents your life that has been through many tasks. You have won all of these trials but that doesn’t mean they’re just in your past. But it is here to say that you have the courage to keep going and then you’ll face the trials of your future with resounding success.

This card represents +2 in love. Everything in love takes time so don’t feel glum if it feels like mountain you need to climb. Your hard work will pay off, just don’t stop when things feel tough. Growth is natural and human and blind, but when two people put in the effort then the work will feel aligned.

Seeing this card in reverse, you may be afraid to come out of your shell. Not taking risks is sometimes good but it doesn’t mean it will always end well. If you restrict yourself then the flowers of your life may not be able to grow. It might be less scary to avoid commitment, but it also means that you may not be able to let your talents show. You need to face the fear living inside of you. It’s the best way to move forward and show the world what you can do.

Question: I would like to know if ten of wands means that he has feelings for me.

Answer: He sees love as nothing but a burden, and this is based on the past pain of being hurt. As it took him by surprise, he now views love as an uphill climb, and an obligation to uphold. If he ever enters into a relationship, his disloyalty will quickly rip that apart.

Make some time for yourself, let him experience what it is like to be alone so he can truly appreciate the awakening that will one day occur within him. If he is ready, and you are willing, there is a small chance, but at his stage, that is drastically unlikely.

In my opinion, Ten of wands card’s score for love and relationships is -3.

Question: Page of wands card in love?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is +4 (very good).

Page of wands in love indicates that it is time to take some risks and get yourself out there. Be open to new experiences and adventures and even if you’re in a relationship it is a sign to try some new things to spice up your love life. Take a wild vacation or be open to something scary (in a good way of course).

As the knight has rode to you, it says its time to get away and travel too. Escapism is needed for everyone to make you feel full of energy. And once you get back, you’ll be ready to go and sort out the things that you need. There are important tasks waiting that may fill you with glee. But remember to balance your views and organise your thoughts so that you can clearly see.

This card is a -4 in love. Being scared won’t help you because you can never be prepared within love. Fear is real but don’t give it control, because you can still manage your soul. Open up and say what hurts, this will show people to be alert of your feelings. Slowly you can manage distrust, and keep at bay your lust. Be open to your partner, you’re stronger together than devided.

If the knight is reversed it may be no surprise that you’re not going anywhere. You might feel extremely stuck and stressed out with staying where you were. If your self-esteem is falling really fast, you might be relieved to know that these horrible feelings won’t last. Its time to look at why you’re staying still. You might not be able to control it, but you should at least see if there’s anything you can change to help you get up that hill.

Question: Does he still have my number? I want him to call me.

Answer: It is surprising that you want him to call you, as usually you aren’t one for pining after somebody else. You would normally be off fluttering your independent wings and living life to the full without a care in the world, so he must be important to you.

He likely does have your number, but you cannot sit about waiting for the phone to ring. Go out and make the most of your assets. Apply that strong mind to your own personal goals and he will soon come running when he is ready.

In my opinion, Queen of wands card’s score for love and relationships is 3.

Question: What does he think of me? What’s the reading?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is +4 (very good).

The King of wands represents a man who is very interested in a woman. He feels that she is bold and very open about her feelings. He thinks a lot about you and really wants to communicate openly about his feelings with you. He thinks you might have a bit of a bad temper but not in a bad way. This only means that you need to be open and honest with each other considering feelings and issues. Trust is a big influence.

The ace of wands is bold, and you should be too. It signals creativity, but not the kind you might commonly do. You need to find your own voice and your creativity in the cosmos. If you do, you’ll stand strong and tall, finding your vision in your spirit the most. Take the chance that is placed at your feet. The cliff edge might be scary, but the ground is beautiful if you just take that chance and leap.

This card scores +1 in love. Be more open about feelings people don’t always know what you are meaning. If things have been feeling out of place, then it’s time to see the problem face-to-face. Bring new light onto the subject and see how that changes the effect.

When reversed, you’re likely in a slump. It might feel like every aspect in life just seems like taking your lumps. But sometimes forcing your way through this slump can simply get you stuck in the mud. Take some time to reflect, and inspiration will find you when it should. If every time you make a move, things seem to be getting in your way, this card is telling you to wait for the right time as patience is okay.

You feel like your loyalty is divided and that you are caught in the middle of something.

Maintain transparency so that everyone knows where you stand. Do not let one side or the other try to influence you. That means that you are caught up in mind games. Let people know that you wish to remain neutral so that you are not caught in the middle of something that is not your concern.

Do not play favorites in the situation. Playing favorites will build barriers that will put you in the middle if you are not careful.

This card scores a 0 in love as it isn’t good or bad. It just indicates that there is a balance needed between to people. See both sides of the picture and communicate feelings directly.

This is a time to be careful with your words. Think about what you will say and to whom, so you do not appear to be taking sides. Do not allow someone to involve you in a situation by tricking you into being a participant.

Maintain your neutrality and try to support both sides, rather than ending up in the middle. Show that you are trustworthy. Do not get involved in a “he said” “she said” battle. If you are conversing with both sides in a dispute, keep the conversations private. You can support both sides without having to get involved.

This card you may know, is the one of true heartbreak. It might be a breakup or a betrayal, but your soul is sure to ache. I’m sorry to pass this news to you but sometimes life is bad. But this card is preparing you so you can think this through and minimise the pain you might have had. This card is still here to remind you that loss is something we all go through. But that’s a normal part of life and it helps you to see the joy that is around you too.

This card scores -5 in love. Heartbreak is on the way, this isn’t something you can put in a nice way. This relationship has no other fate than the saddening weight of a love gone sour. There is no positive way out except to accept that things sometimes don’t work.

If this card is flipped then it indicates that the hurt has already happened. You might still find yourself wrapped in pain and sorrow with your soul still being dampened. This card is here to remind you that you can move on and keep going like you planned. If you keep living in the past and focusing on your sorrow, then you might miss that extended helping hand.

It is time to recharge. You have been working hard and do not seem to be making any progress. Your energy is low, and you need to refuel before you can finish your projects.

Recharging may mean sleeping more, practicing yoga, or meditating. It may mean a staycation or a quick weekend get-a-way. Do what you need to do to be refreshed and attack life again when you are at your best.

It is essential to recharge physically and mentally. Take care of your body and your mind. Making small changes can help realign yourself so that you are not tired and can focus on what you need to do.

In a love reading this card scores +1 as it seems a relationship is taking rest. It is a time to rest and rethink about the situation that happened between you two. Don’t make hasty decisions just be patient and let guidance come to you.

To recharge, you will need a combination of rest and play. Take some time alone but also take some time with the people you love. There is nothing more fulfilling than loving and being loved. Take care of your health while you take a little break from the constant busyness, and you will be ready to tackle everything full force again.

Do not try to tackle everything without allowing time for breaks and recovery. Your body and mind need a break first. Take the break, and you will notice how much more productive you can be.

There might be tension between you and others that you’re finding hard to break. You might’ve won the battle, but you will lose the war if all you do is take. It is time to reflect on your actions and try to mend the broken glass. It might be hard, but you can pick up the pieces to try and make this tension pass. If you make choices, you might find that you will lose some friends. It’s time to look at what’s really most important to you to see how this conflict will end.

This card scores +1 in love. Time to pick up the pieces of a conflict that decreases and apologize to each other. Do not try to make others be in the wrong, but communicate with a song. Let them voice their opinion like you have too and then understand it from their point of view.

If the card is flipped your morale has dipped and you want this conflict to end. Maybe you’ve realised that winning isn’t everything and it’s more important to keep your friends. You need to understand that the outcomes aren’t always possible, but it might be what you have to deal with. If there are no winners but you keep your friends, then that is a much better way to live.

It is time for a change. Though change can be challenging, you need to accept it. It is time to let go of the past and make room for what is about to come in your future.

Take this opportunity to make a change in yourself to become who you want to be. Work towards your goals and see the positive that the change is bringing.

Decide what still belongs in your life, but be ready to get rid of things that no longer serve you and your purpose.

If the change is causing a little anxiety and uncertainty, concentrate on the factors that you can control rather than on what you can’t.

In love this card scores -3 as it can indicate that you need to let go of past relationships and how they left you and focus on the new. Change your perspective on things.

Change means new opportunities. Sort out your priorities and decide which opportunities are best for you. As things progress, make sure you are taking care of your health, and you are adapting to the changes.

Embrace change, even if it seems uncomfortable at first. It is an opportunity to grow and learn. You will feel more fulfilled at the end of this journey.

Question: What does seven of swords mean in a future love reading?

Answer: In my opinion, the love and relationship score for this card is -1 (not good).

The seven of swords indicate that you should mainly stay away from pursuing relationships for the time being. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t date, it just says that you should work on yourself and take care of yourself. As time goes on you will meet someone extraordinary when needed. Don’t jump into something just because you don’t want to be alone or anything like that.

You have lost your power and surrounded by the blades you can feel trapped. But these traps are ones you’ve created yourself and you can survive and adapt. You’ve handed the controls over to someone else and it’s made your situation worse. But you can take back that control and navigate your way out of this situation, trust me you’ll no longer feel cursed.

In a relationship this card has a score of -3. It you feel down in the dumps or smothered by love then now is the time to plan your escape. You should always put your health first and then you can worry about the rest. Be at peace with yourself and others will look after themselves. Leave situations that cause you harm and be rest assured that you can let go of feeling alarmed.

If this card is flipped then you have accepted yourself in ways that others have not. You’ve learned your power and responsibility through the lessons that you’ve been taught. You are confident in making the decisions that you need to which is surely a good sign. The control of your life and situation lies with you now that you have a clear head and a clear mind. It’s time to spring clean aspects of your life to let new opportunities in. If you do this, you’ll surely move forward and find yourself with a win.

This card knows that you’re feeling anxious inside. Your thoughts and worries are spinning around and it’s keeping you up at night. There may be trauma that is causing nightmares to plague your sleep. This suit is one associated with the mind and the emotions that it keeps. To help with your situation you might need some control. Have a think about what is going on and break it down, you don’t need to always tackle it as a whole.

This card scores a -3 in love. Fear or anxiety is getting in the way, you need to hold these hypothetical fears at bay. Negative thoughts are going to kill your soul so you need to prepare to break down these walls. Give people the chance and they might surprise you, it can be scary but there are some good people out there too.

In reverse, there is still negativity in your mind. However, you should have hope you’ll leave them behind. There is a lot of work to be done in order to keep moving on. But if you give up part way through then you’ll find the trauma isn’t gone. The pit of despair is still near, but you need to keep on moving forward or the pit might swallow you and your fear.

Question: I like her a lot but she has very tiny tits. I would like a normally looking woman as a mate for life. Should I go for this relationship or not?

Clearly illustrating the horrible act of backstabbing, the Ten of swords is not the card you want to open in your love reading. However, in your case, it might be your salvation as you struggle to make a decision based on a superficial aspect of your partner, indicating that your relationship is already on thin ice, lacking true depth and attachment. I assign this card a love score of -5, an unmistakable sign that something is about to crash to the ground.

Your new ideas and plans are ready to take flight. You feel the excitement of something new – a new project, new learning opportunities, and new relationships. Everything is new and fresh, and you are full of energy, excited to see where things go.

This euphoric feeling is making you feel like you can accomplish anything you put your mind to. So, set out your goals, make a plan, and get busy. Retain the stamina you feel now. New beginnings take work, and things may seem to take longer than you had expected. But the end is in sight, and you have set out to accomplish great things.

Your mind is curious, and you want to try many new things. Go ahead and do it. Don’t let anything hold you back from gaining new knowledge and trying new ways of doing things. Ask lots of questions and be proactive in seeking the answers.

It is okay if you try new things and make mistakes. Go back to the drawing board, figure out what went wrong, and try again. You must learn from the mistakes and use them to move forward.

You may be seeking new and innovative ways to express yourself. Now is the time to explore your creative freedom while communicating your thoughts to others. You have a message to share, and you will find an innovative and relevant way to share it. Be open to exploring new ideas.

In love this card scores +3. It means breaking your own cycles in a relationship and how you approach things. Let things flow naturally and new ideas will spring to life.

This knight is on a set road and not looking at their surroundings. With a mind set solely on one idea going forward at the pace of bounding. But the passing roads that aren’t being seen have tales of their own. There are consequences to following this road, especially going alone. It is great to have a goal but make sure to look at the plan. Every action has consequences that may not be good so make sure to be aware and avoid them when you can.

This card scores +2 in love. A romantic proposal is on the way, just hold on for a couple more days. They’ll sweep you off of your feet and are very sweet. Whether this be a new commitment or a serious relationship coming up, things sure are going to be looking better from now on.

In reverse, the knight’s energy is one that cannot be stopped. They are impatient and their wanting for something cannot be topped. Rash decisions may pull the knight down, but they’ll pull others down too. Be careful if someone tries to drag you into a hasty plan, you have been warned of what to do. Thoughts are scattered and not sorted in any kind of way. Rushing off can get you trapped so you won’t see the light of day.

You are connecting with people on an intellectual level. Your emotions are not playing a part in your decision making, which helps you make sense of situations.

You always seek the truth. You are a good listener and open to the opinions and thoughts that others offer, but you like to dig deeper so that you can get to the truth of the matter. People who do not tell the truth have no place for you. Idle gossip is not appreciated.

You are also able to talk to others bluntly and honestly. You like to get to the point and say what you are thinking. You expect others to be upfront and honest as well. Others respect your opinion because they know you are going to give them an honest one. This encourages many to come to you for advice.

You establish boundaries in your relationships and make sure people respect them. Setting expectations shows that you care how others treat you. In turn, you appreciate the boundaries of others.

In love this card scores +2. It states clearly that you should state your intentions and not sugar coat anything. Be honest about what you want in love and a partner.

You also have a softer side, which is saved for your inner circle—those who know you love you.

Question: King of swords for ex.

Answer: Your relationship fell apart because your ex was unable to listen or compromise. All problems were met with lack of emotion or desire to communicate effectively, even though you yourself had the clarity to see solutions to what you were going through.

This type of closed-mindedness caused arguments, and fractious connections, and with one person being a good listener and the other refusing to budge, there was only really one outcome. Love existed, but this partnership was not meant to be.

In my opinion, King of swords card’s score for love and relationships is -1.

You are about to experience an epiphany! Suddenly, things will become clear in your mind. You will know how to respond to the situations with which you are presented.

You must remember that an epiphany may lead you to a deep inward search. Take the journey and use the mental clarity to motivate yourself and move forward.

Epiphanies are good, but it is what you do with it that matters most.

You are about to discover your true self and your purpose. Take time to let things sink in before you decide how to approach situations that may need resolution.

Meditate on your new-found knowledge and spend time alone to get to know yourself again. Only then can you know others.

Remember that at this moment, you are where you need to be, doing what you are supposed to be doing. Explore the relationship between mind, body, and spirit. Allow yourself time to digest everything and discover who you want to become.

There is nothing that you need to do, and nothing that you need to achieve. Be the best version of yourself and move forward.

This card scores a +3 in love. It asks for you to be direct while discussing matters of the heart and taking a logical step in the relationship as needed.